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Tiaki
14th October 2009, 07:59 PM
Hi Everyone,

Haven't been doing much more than lurk for a long time now. Lots going on at the moment and in all honesty the majority not too good at all.

Today has been one of the hardest days of my life :(

A week/two weeks ago, a decision was made that Chunky was to be rehomed. If I had my way this wouldn't have been but it was out of my hands. On Saturday people came to meet Chunky and they collected him at 10.30am this morning.

I am gutted and in floods of tears as I type this :(

I arrived at the yard this morning after a sleepless night. Chunky was his usual gentle self and allowed me to catch him and lead him onto the yard. On the way down the drive, I stopped for him to munch on some clover. Chunky followed me into the stable and stood calmly and we waited together for the 30mins until his new people arrived. We had lots of cuddles and Chunky was happy to stand in with me. 8months ago, there is no way Chunky would have come in alone. When his new people arrived he was friendly and intrigued by the crowd. Lots going on at the yard this morning but he remained totally calm. After we had a long chat and paperwork was all sorted it was time. I popped Chunky's new halter onto him and lead him out. As soon as he saw the trailer he froze. He hadn't been in one for a year. Last time was when I collected him and brought him to my yard, his so say home for life.
It took an hour to load Chunky. Trying to remain calm was so hard when I didn't want him to go. Maybe he knew I didn't wan him to go which is why he refused to load. Eventually I whispered into his ear that he had to load and he walked straight on. He flinched as the ramp closed and put his nose into my arms for comfort. I spent a few moments with him before coming out then off they went.
The whole time Chunky was in view, he had his head turned and looked at me as they drove away. This was the point I broke down.
Kiwi and Abbey stood by the gate calling, searching for Chunky's reply but all they could hear was silence.

I have had Chunky for a whole year. He was in such a poor state when he arrived, immediately causing everyone to fall in love with him. His presence of kindness and wiseness will never leave me. I am heartbroken that he has moved to a new home.

Please don't think bad of me guys. I am gutted and this was totally out of my hands :(

Now it is just me, Kiwi and Abbey, and I hope it stays that way

Be good Chunky. I hope you settle in well and hope you can forgive me :(

xxx

Starsky
14th October 2009, 08:02 PM
im so sorry hunni, i hope he has a good time in his new home, must hae been so hard xx

Anni~Bell
14th October 2009, 08:08 PM
Awwww hun that is sooo sad! =(
*huge hugs*

Tiaki
14th October 2009, 08:11 PM
Thanks guys.

I am used to horses coming and going but when it is (or so I thought) set in concrete that they are staying, and they then have to move on, that hurts :(

xxx

chescar
14th October 2009, 08:12 PM
You have done wonderful things with Chunky, he is a total credit to you. I'm pretty sure you have found him a home that will continue your good work. You are wonderful with horses, and i'm sure many people on here aspire to be as calm, patient and talented as you are when it comes to horses.

Sorry I can't help you feel better, pm me if you need a chat. I will try my best to cheer you up. If you lived nearer, i would make you a cake. Always works for me. x jo

My Crazy Clan
14th October 2009, 08:13 PM
Know one is going to think bad of you!!!! Your great and gave him and your others a fab home.

To be honest I always thought he was yours only, guessing there was know way he could stay.

So sorry, huge huggles.

black crow
14th October 2009, 08:13 PM
Big hugs.

I know how much you didnt want this, and im sorry i couldnt do more for you both at the time. Her ****** choice of time, hm!

You know my thoughts on it all anyway, but big hugs. Atleast hes somewhere safe and secure now

xx

Bek B
14th October 2009, 08:13 PM
We wouldn't think bad of you!!


Andi is SPOT ON with her post.

A hope those warm and happy memories will help to heal your heart.

(((hugs)))

Pie_x
14th October 2009, 08:19 PM
Awwww, no one would ever think bad of you! Like everyone said you have given that pony a life to LIVE, you turned his world around when everything was upside down for him and you made him that pony he is today.

It must be so sad, i can't even imagine what you are going through. :(

What we're the owners like? I'm guessing they will be lovely and hopefully will keep intouch with you? :)

Tiaki
14th October 2009, 08:20 PM
Thanks everyone.

I just hope nothing else like this happens :( I can't cope with anymore crap at the moment :(

xxx

Tiaki
14th October 2009, 08:21 PM
Pie - His new owners seem nice. I have no idea where he has gone though. I didn't get to see the place before they collected him :(

xxx

Teej
14th October 2009, 08:23 PM
This has had me in tears. I'm so sorry and I hope he has gone to a lovely home. I think this is every horse owners nightmare that we may need to give our horses up or lose them in a way thats out of our control. It sounds like you have given him a great start and horses are a lot more reslilient than we realise and they soon settle in a new home.
x

Betseyboo
14th October 2009, 08:27 PM
Sam I am so sorry this has reduced me to tears......can't imagine how u must feel. Big hugs hun, you can catch me anytime if you wanna chat xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Tiaki
14th October 2009, 08:30 PM
thanks all.
Your support is much appreciated

xxx

CityLights
14th October 2009, 08:42 PM
aww its so sad having to let a horse go, at least though you have done enough work with him and good work to mean he is able to go to a nice home where as otherwise who knows what could of happend to him if he hadnt ended up with you

gem
14th October 2009, 08:43 PM
Oh hun :( I remember when you first got him and didn't think he'd even make it over the winter. I fell in love with him from the first pics you showed us. You've done wonders for him Sam. He'll have a much happier life than was even imaginable a year ago. I'm sure you've found him a wonderful home. Big big hugs xxx

Pie_x
14th October 2009, 09:46 PM
Oh :(
Well thats surely a little bit of comfort that they seemed nice? Sorry you don't know where he's gone too or what the place is like but hope everything works out ok xxx

Loony
14th October 2009, 10:41 PM
Sorry to hear this Sam. xx

bimba
14th October 2009, 11:22 PM
Sam hun I'm so sorry, don't know what to say as I know how much they all mean to you and can't imagine how hard a decision it must have been for you. Hopefully he'll be happy in his new home and will continue to shine! If you ever want a chat I'm always here and will happily PM you my number if you ever want it xx

Sasca
15th October 2009, 12:14 AM
So sorry, he was great little pony and im sure that after the care you've given him, he can now go on to achieve some great things. Just remember he'd be dog food if it wasn't for you! you've done amazing, when the shock has worn away, i hope pride fills its place for you.

eeek
15th October 2009, 10:22 AM
How tragic, big hugs for you.

I know you were devoted to the funny little man. Hope he has a nice home.

You have set him up for a great future, well done.

coloredred
15th October 2009, 12:49 PM
Sorry to hear you've had to rehome him but you've given him the best chance for a good life. He wouldn't be hear now if it wasn't for you.

*hugs*

vels mum
15th October 2009, 01:24 PM
Im so sorry to hear that Sam, big hugs x

Puss in boots
15th October 2009, 09:20 PM
*big hugs* to you, time will ease things for you x

hot.to.trot
15th October 2009, 10:52 PM
sorry sweets XXXX

ness
16th October 2009, 04:41 AM
I was so sad to read that, (no idea what is going on in your life,) but no doubt you had a good reason to rehome Chunky-he sounded adorable and I am sure he will always remeber you. (hugs) Nessx

Tiaki
16th October 2009, 11:55 AM
Thanks guys for your comments.

I would just like to make clear though, Chunky's moving was not my decision. It was totally out of my hands. I'm not going into details but just want it to be clear that I did not make the decision, which is why I am feeling so low about it

xxx